where we belong - thriving ivory.

It sucks when you miss that person so much that you look through old photos, old text messages, even old statuses. And it brings a smile to your face, but then the hurt comes back and you know you shouldn't be looking back, but you can't help it because they really meant something to you and you thought it would have lasted.

I miss all the morning texts i would wake up to, i miss texting you till i sleep, i miss going to bed with a smile on my face, i miss being excited for the next day, because it was when i got to see you. But most of all, i miss being happy. And i’m probably never going to feel that kind of happiness again.

Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all that defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you. That one stupid person, no different from any other stupid persons, wanders into your life. You give them a piece of you even when they didn't ask for it, they did something so simple for you one day, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness. It hurts not just in the imagination, not just in the mind. But in the soul, a pain that gets inside you and rips you apart. I hate love.

When we were kids, we pretend to cry when sleepy to
attract mom's attention. Now, we pretend to
be sleeping when crying quietly to avoid questions.

Don't assume too much that he likes you when he texts you, sometimes, he's just looking for someone to talk with because the one he really likes is busy, or can't talk to him at the moment. -cuteqts.xanga.com

People change. Feelings change. It doesn't mean that the love once shared wasn't true and real. It simply just means that sometimes when people grow, they grow apart.

It's those times at night when you want to sleep because you want to forget everything. Then when you close your eyes, all you can see are the memories, the things you've always been expecting to happen, and just everything you've been trying to forget. -cuteqts.xanga.com

A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let them go.

The person who truly loves you is the one who wouldn't
let you slip away no matter how big the situation is.

It's easy to find someone to sleep with - but harder to find
someone who wants to be there and hold your hand after 50 years.

Sometimes I say, "I just want you happy."
But deep in my heart I still want to be your happiness.

Silence is a girl's loudest cry. You can always tell she's
really hurt when she starts ignoring you.

You come to the point of giving up when
the hopes that used to keep you going
becomes the reason for you to stop believing.

They say that the more you try to tell your feelings,
the more that person is gonna take you for granted.
But actually, which hurts more? That, or getting hurt for
keeping words unspoken? -cuteqts.xanga.com

Sometimes you have to realize that not everything
he does to you... has a meaning. -cuteqts.xanga.com

It's funny how after a day of trying to be strong and
occupied, at the end of the day, you find that silent
moment and just cry.

There's always those times when you wake up, you check your phone and find no messages from him, so you go back to sleep, and when you wake up again, you still see nothing. But you just get up, with the heavy pain in the chest, accepting the fact that everything's changed. And he won't text you anymore, just like how he used to. -cuteqts.xanga.com

The longest distance on Earth: is not from
North to South; it's when I stand in front of you
and yet, you still ignore me.

all taken from cuteqts.xanga.com

we're gonna start a fire!

So many things has happened since I last wrote in this blog, so many dramas has unfolded, feelings let out, screams, cries, the sound of joy and so forth.

I really enjoyed my life so far, and yes there might be times I think that life itself is unfair but when I count my blessings I'm glad to have people that really loves me. My maternal grandmother, my parents, my brother, my best friends, the boyfriend and everybody else that have came into my life and left a footprint in me.

As of this month, I've made a road trip down to Kampar, Perak. Had the championship at bff's place and failed to clinch the title. Had a mid semester break. Had a mid term test. Forgiven someone for the past mistakes. Appreciate family more.

I feel that I've grown more this coming months and I thank everybody who taught me lessons that were worth teaching, loved me just the way I am. I love you all.

words that are true.

are you looking for happiness?

are you looking for something better?

do you ever feel emptiness?

are you scared that its gonna last forever?

don't give it away.

i don't want your happiness,

i don't need your happiness,

so never show me happiness,

i don't want your happiness.

everybody needs sanctuary

everybody needs hope and freedom

but not everybody needs a preacher

so don't tell me what you wanna hear

& don't give it away.

we don't need your cheap salvation

we don't want sympathy

over and over again

The ship of fools is sailing away

Just got back from this awesome concert by Hurts at Mist, Bangsar and everything was good. The dramatic gestures, lighting and all. Was just simply perfect for the gig. And it was a hundred and nineteen dollars well spent.

A friend asked today, why are we so emo?
I don't know, people are emotional for different reasons, often which are unexplainable by words and usually expressed out through tears.

On a completely different topic though, I want somebody to look into my eyes, tells me I'm beautiful and mean every word of it. Somebody to share my pain, my excitement, my happiness and everything. I have a boyfriend, don't get me wrong but sometimes I just wished he'll appreciates me a little more. I know its probably asking for too much, but is wanting to be appreciated a lot? No right? Come on. People dress up everyday just to be appreciated by people they know or don't know. So yes, I just want to be appreciated a little bit, him to tell me I look gorgeous, you know. Simple things like that. That really makes a girl go aww.

I don't know where I'm getting with this, like it's gonna be any help.

Goodnight blogsphere.